It's hard, I know. So many times I wish I knew for sure what to say or do. Maybe a MLC blueprint perhaps? Like if they do this, we do that. I guess we do have that in general with DB, but it's the specifics of each situation that make things tough.
And of course there are no guarantees.
I think our minds can spin out of control with all the various scenarios, and trying to determine just what is best for our family. To me, it is a huge weight that we bear - but still less crushing than everything that is weighing our spouses down.
You have been kind, compassionate, patient, and understanding - I believe not because it is a "technique", but because that's who you are.
And that can never be wrong.
Thinking of you
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."
