if a woman or man told me that their spouse cried when they said they wanted a divorce, it would
NOT trigger a single negative thought about the spouse who cried.
However It WOULD trigger some seriously negative feelings about the person blabbing this personal moment of grief in a way that they think disparages their spouse.
She has no class or compassion. It's one of the coldest descriptions I've heard and I swear I think she has done you a favor.
Read Madame Bovary sometime and see what you have escaped...
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016