Pleaes do NOT give an ultimatum if you are not capable of enforcing it. That removes any scrap of power you have. SHE sure seems detached so let her be your role model...
And for now, you are as you say, "co dependent" and it's not healthy.
I would hate living the way you are.
Be strong. You can do this.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
