i give up...lol.. Yes... he has asked for space, but not necessarily so where the business is concerned. H just called and I hinted to the "I understand cottage fun" theory... he remained that this was strictly about me being around tomorrow as he "feels" its a busy business day... OK... letting it go.
I don't understand it... but, somehow he wants to go alone. Much like today, taking a client appointment (which we do together) but he preferred to do alone. BUT, has called me several times today to inform me of his actions. His perstistance about me going/he will not... is supposedly about insisting client availability tomorrow. I believe this is what he truly believes....so fine ... I will leave it alone.
My choice would be to GO, because it makes most business sense and therefore I could monitor the spending... but, in this case. Apparantly he wants to go ALONE, so go!
"thinking" maybe if I view him as a "boss" instead of a partner, we wouldn't battle? but, then on the other hand, he wants me to make decisions on my own too (this as of yesterday), so pointed out that IF I make a decision, and its the WRONG one...It was my decision to make, and he will have to suck it up!
Also KD, you posted: // Your posts suggested you were stuck in getting validation from your H.//... what do you mean?
Tx KD & Bond!
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
