Not sure if you saw my previous post (#2351913) above.

Let me again stress... HE IS ASKING FOR SPACE.

Is he lying or withholding? Who knows? Maybe he is, maybe he isn't. IF he IS, then it is really, really important that you understand... He likely feels he NEEDS to. It is possible that he feels that IF he is lying or withholding, the alternative... him telling you what really IS going on, would be worse than you knowing / thinking that he is lying.

He has made a decision to go alone, tomorrow. He said that if you go, he will not.

Your option? Don't go (per his suggestion), or GO (and he will stay back).

Nothing else matters in this.

What is your choice?