KD, Bond, let me explain further. This is NOT about weekend plans for him (not yet). Tomorrow is a work day, we normally go together and with reason that makes BUSINESS sense (drive up in one, take 2 back). Now, suddenly he is changing the routine...possibly to accomodate a cottage arrangement (for another time, not necessarily THIS weekend). H suggesting that he will stay behind, was because he believes that we could be missing out on "possible" Saturday appointments.

I just want him to feel he doesn't have to LIE to me (if that is what he is doing)... which is why I want to clarify.

Telling him to "have fun" is not relevant for such a work day. Work ends around 4/5pm tomorrow.

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)