When I saw my L in Feb 2012, it was for if she left or filed, what my rights were, etc...(my L did say to try to wait W out as long as possible in hopes she would move through this)...well this time it is for me initiating, so a bit different context maybe...?
And you are right:
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As far as giving her the divorce, that is what she asked for. It could continue as it is for many more months. I think as some point, you have to do something different.
As you said, she can stop it at any point and you told her the door is always open for R.
I think your actions are fair and honest, and that you are hearing her, giving her what she wants, and lovingly letting her go.
I can still keep the high road in my actions no matter what...
Thank you again for keeping me honest with myself...
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
