Becoming Patient Man

[Tryin2figuritout]

My Mrs. needs work too and even though we're about to file we're still seeing our couples therapist whom we both really like. The Mrs. wants to see her individually, but our counselor has stated that we as a couple are her client so she'd have to let me know what was discussed and to date my wife hasn't been just ready to do that.

My wife's totally noticing my changes and has been absolutely floored and overwhelmed with them. She's just so puzzled why we've gotten to where we are even though there is so much there. I'd think a few sessions where she gets time with our therapist alone she might push her to think about whether there's a reason why the two of us still can remain so close, friendly and caring for each other during the initial divorce preceedings. I know the Mrs. would laugh/scoff at me if I said it, but she really trusts our therapist.

I just gotta keep up my end of this and continue to work on myself. I feel like I've taken a few steps back because I've gotten more comfortable with the changes I've made, but to the point of being complacent and that's why I ended up where I'm at in the first place!!!

Another day, another new thing learned.....

Have a great Memorial Day weekend.

Trying