Emilys88,

Let me say something.

When I first came here I got some of the best advice out there.

I didn't hear any of it because my head was spinning. I was 100% focused on the craziness that I was feeling at that moment.

If you can stop and heed the advice you are and will be given, it will help you feel better faster.

If you can't stop and see it right now, you will be OK, it will just take longer.

Everyone is different.

For me it took months to slow down and see what was happening. I missed some amazing advice (at that time, I do read it now), but the caring people on here never once left me.

You will be OK.

That is all I wanted to say right now.


M46,W41
D16,D18
M22,T25
BD 11/12
W moved out 01/13
Piecing 10/13
Divorced 01/15
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can."
UrWorthy