Last night I was not sure if I should show my W my paystubs. When I told her I was not comfortable just yet showing her, she got upset.
My MC (as well as you here on this forum) made me realize this morning, that not showing her would only serve to make her more resentful and less trusting. Short story, I gave all of this years paystubs.
We had a conversation about it and about what we, or should I say "I", am going to do to make more money so that we have enough to pay our bills. I related to her that I would try to pick up some more time at work.
MC session this morning went well. W did not attend. I am getting better at distancing and detaching while still walking that line of being the husband that she would be a fool to leave. That line is proving to be difficult to manage but I think I am getting better at it, thanks to all of you.
Thanks everyone for all the help so far. I will keep you posted and please keep the constructive criticisms coming. It helps me tremendously to stay on track.
My thoughts and prayers go out to all of us that find a need to be on this forum. This forum has helped me tremendously so far.
Thank you
BKS
We had a conversation about them and also about what I covered in MC today.
