ok.. tx bond. New sitch: Normally h & I purchase our inventory together. Well, he just informed me that he will go on his own tomorrow, as Saturday is a busy client day (we have NO appts!!)???. He then threw in the mix that he will leave a vehicle there and drive a diff one back, leaving one there so that he can possibly catch a ride back with a friend sometime on the way to a cottage. He even said, that if I go tomorrow, then he wont... he will stay behind as he feels it will be a busy client day here.
Now my thinking is that that is his point... so that he can entertain this cottage and have a vehicle there to retrieve at his convenience.
Would it be alright to say... I understand the whole cottage attraction if that is your goal, but it doesn't make sense for us to leave a vehicle there, when we normally go together and drive 2 away? This way it allows him to feel he can be honest with me, if that is the case.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)