wfm, just to give some quick feedback right now:

Originally Posted By: waitingformagic
I want to be the woman he respects and appreciates.


This is still very prominent in your life. That you are worried about how he sees you.

Really important for you to work on this, that at the end of the day, it is YOU that needs to respect yourself and appreciate your value and deeds.

If ANYONE else notices, that's a bonus.

If your work arrangement was NOT with your H, how would you conduct yourself?

I understand it's difficult to separate the two, yet it remains so important that you figure that out for yourself.

When you "go to work" in the morning, what is on your mind? Work...? Or your SO...?