I'm sure Sandi will come along shortly and give you her amazing words of wisdom!
For me "Dropping the rope" means:
To let go, in your head, to just let go of your W. To not have any expectations and treat her as a friend. Be polite and kind, just like you would be for a friend and at this point, not a close friend, just a friend.
Do your own thing and be as positive and happy as you can be!
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy