constant reminders - triggers

[abbey1989]

"Oh what a tangled web we weave, When first we practise to deceive!" Sir Walter Scott

Have pretty much confirmed that my H has been living a double life. I discovered that he has a P.O. box and secret bank account. I believe it is due to him helping OW on her new house and a workers comp claim (a carpenter fell off of a ladder) on her property back in June 2012. Previous to this week, the only real proof that I had that he was assisting her homebuilding efforts was public information. He was the person calling the County for this inspection or that inspection.

I am really upset because in looking at just two of the bank statements that I found, $1500 has been paid out. I'm guessing to the injured guy who is not or has ever been our "official" employee.

I am SO upset that this guy who was injured - and I hope he is OK but don't know who he is....and I am worried that he could sue us for all we are worth.

Gosh I am really considering hiring an attorney soon. Never thought it might come to this. But when the savings that we have accrued (from my HARD work at a corporate company for 20 years) is being squandered away. That *ucks.