OOOOHHHH Boy. The W is coming to pick me up at work for lunch. I assume when she drops me off she is on the road. Here's the conversation in my head with myself:

"Do not ask her where she is going. If she is going to the AP for the holiday or her brother's is out of your control. Yes, You want to know but knowing may hurt you. You cannot let her leave with anything less than a PMA. This is the last thing she will remember about her time here. It's what will stick. RT! STFU!!! No probing, no questioning, no passive-aggressive comments that you are so good at. (we are working on this) End on a high note. Prove to yourself that you are OK with or without your W. Show yourself what you already know... She's a fool for leaving."

Here we go... She'll be here in 15 min.

Me(F):40 WAW:44
T:13yrs M:9yrs
BD:2/12 (I saw a text)
ILYBINILWY: 5/12
PA admission: 12/12 (began 3/11)
S:2/13
Moves in w/AP D begins: 7/13
W moves home to R: 10/13