You may be right, but we will have to see at this point as it is now out there. I think in our case, the timing was right as my W had moved into "life is now good, move along folks, nothing to see here" mode, yet was/is cake-eating. She was already saying a lot of the right things, but they felt like so much else in our marriage for so many year...superfluous, non-intimate, call it what you will. And MC knows that things are not fine, so this is his attempt to also get her to see that?
Either way, my job on it at this point is to STFU on it and not bring it up, so I am doing that.
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"
