Still Struggling and need help #3

[CharlieBrown]

RH,

I think he is giving her a small ultimatum, knowing that there are larger ultimatums needed at some point. He alluded to the FB decision as symbolic for her, which is part of why I have been so fixated on it as well I believe. I think, while he didn't say this, he could see that I was doing all the heavy lifting and she was just whistling a line of bs about what she was doing to fix things, and I think he viewed this as an opportunity to get her to see that this is on her too. And, there is no bs in it, you either vote yes or you vote no, so to speak.

You could be right, but my feel was that it was the right thing to do. Also, our therapist knows about tat-boy and some of the "tougher" stuff and he didn't bring any of that up, probably because it would have been too much pressure.

I tried to focus it in on "I am confused, help me understand..." and "This is how this feels to me..." and he did a nice job bridging our feedback.
CB