Also, I'm starting to really suspect that he's cheated on me at least once; that's the only reason I can think of for him to be pushing for this D to get processed as quickly as possible (and is demanding I do the work for this -- it's so weird how even now he's expecting me to do his paperwork for him!).
I'm resisting this feeling because
1. It's not like feeling horrible about my partner cheating on me helps me GAL
2. When we were talking it was fairly consistent -- I'm not sure how he'd have been able to have another partner if he was spending that much time on the phone with me.
3. Ultimately what he is or isn't doing doesn't change that he wants a divorce.
Me: 30 H: 29 M: 2 yrs T: 5 years BD: 12/14/12 Divorce talk begins 1/6/13 I filed: 5/20/13 -- no contact since