you cannot do neither, because it's eating you alive"
After last nights experience with GAL I think I am going to GAL and stay but.... if she tries to the divorce card on me again through this process I am going to call her out on it, make her own that she doesn't want to counsel and/or communicate, and essentially tell her I will start the process and file. Each time she has pulled the D word out and I said I would file she freaked. Its almost like her control card. This time Im prepared to file as much as it [censored]. I already have a L and he knows my sitch.