You do understand that MLC is not a disease? It's a life shift that everyone goes through. Just some don't get to the point of it being a 'crisis'. This may be who your H is.
It sounds like he has depression issues. When did you first notice it?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.