did not mean to post too early (Moderators, wth? How'd that happen?)
here
This is a "simple choice" (detach or divorce) os NOT easy but it is NOT complicated. Please remember that we all know it's not easy. we all know each choice means giving something up. Each is a trade off.
Remember at EE how we talked about how ADULTS know we have to enter one room (ie make a choice)
and we do NOT get to stand in the doorway NOT deciding, NOT choosing, or trying to have to have both rooms in sight, forever...?
You seem to be stuck in the doorway b/c you don't like your choices. Well, welcome to DB land.
your wife wants YOU to leave or YOU to file OR YOU to change and blah blah blah
none of it belongs to her. Yet, we know most of it is hers.
Not relevant now. All that matters now is how YOU can be happy with your kids. So, are you going to detach and GAL and stay?
Or move along?
you cannot do neither, because it's eating you alive
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
