ok.. so now he just texted me... "sorry for upsetting you, I do know you try to do the right thing"
I just remembered too, that I was trying to say to h that I dont get "mad" at him.. I get upset for him being "mad" at me.
Here is a silly example of his admitted "carry over" from yesterday that he was MAD at.... I refused to shake a clients hand yesterday because it was quite greasy. H didn't realize earlier that I had joked earlier with the client about him using a rag to review the vehicle as to not get it dirty. Regardless, H thinks I should have shook his hand. Disrespectful/old school. Now, I see h's point.. I agree... but to be MAD at me? to "carry it over" and remember it? That's just screwy!!
Should I respond to H?... I'd like to say something about the handshake... or shall I pretend I didn't get it and was exhausted and fell asleep?
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)