"how the heck does everyone deal with this part of the DB when your spouse is the WAS and pretty much wants nothing to do with you!"
You just don't have sex with her. There are many on here who haven't had sex with their spouse for years. If you can't handle that part of it, then get a D and you can have sex as much as you want.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.