Hey Tad. Sorry to hear about your mom. Glad you came to vent. That's going to be more and more important. If you learn nothing else from your mom, learn how short life is and don't let it pass you by.
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We did talk a little about "us" and when I asked her exactly what happened, she said that it "just wasn't working." I seem to get a different response everytime that question is asked. It was "working" up until she went on that dating site.
I have to say Tad, you are learning. You are learning that each time you ask you get a different response. I know that feeling Eventually, you have to just realize that people are people. They are human. They will do things in their own way and you can't change that. You can accept it though. And you can stop being the crazy one and asking questions like that. She won't be able to tell you, Tad. It is simply not possible for her.
As for friends, that may or may not work for you. I know for me, it doesn't work for me to be "friends" with her. It simply doesn't. No anger, no guilt, no...nothing. It doesn't work for me and that's just how it is. Might change at some point, but I gave up mind reading and asking silly questions years ago
Spend the time with your mom, Tad. Life truly is short and it would be great if there was a lot of quality time in it, right?
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
Eventually, you have to just realize that people are people. They are human. They will do things in their own way and you can't change that. You can accept it though. And you can stop being the crazy one and asking questions like that. She won't be able to tell you, Tad. It is simply not possible for her. 