On my thread it was suggested (maybe you were one of them) that W knows, clearly, that the "friends" or "buddy" system would end along with the marriage, should it get to that point. I took that advice, let W know that and it seemed to bother her, I think she was assuming "the same, just D" meme again that some seem to get...idk.
W has some things that she did, from what little she has told me, that she is very reluctant to disclose...which I find interesting because I am probably one of the most open-minded, can understand the psychological drives behind most things, kind of person. I have spent time trying to figure out, imagine, whatever...I can't think of anything so bad I couldn't forgive, unless it was torturing kittens and puppies, or abusing/taking advantage of someone , etc...But I DO know W has a very easily triggered and exaggerated sense of shame/guilt, so idk...
I like your stance, just what is it they did, and it should be known what we are standing or divorcing for.
Hang in there! T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
