My mother is dying. XW wants to be my friend.

[tadpole1025]

Hello everyone. I was going to post this on my last thread, but I figured it would be best to start a new one with everything going on.

My previous thread can be found here:

Randomness From Inside My Head

The latest:

A few weeks ago, my mom was diagnosed with Pancreatic Cancer. Yesterday, she had surgery and was informed that she probably has 6 month to a year to live.

XW has been calling and texting our boys wanting to find out information. I told them to tell her that if she wanted to know anything, she could call me. She never did. Instead, she told our boys that I was just playing control games. I can't seem to win.



Anyways, I ended up calling her today to give her an update. I talked to her for about 5 minutes and she told me that she was sorry about my mom. She asked how I was doing and I told her I was ok.

She mentioned three times to me that she wants to be my friend. How can she expect me to be her friend after what she did?

We did talk a little about "us" and when I asked her exactly what happened, she said that it "just wasn't working." I seem to get a different response everytime that question is asked. It was "working" up until she went on that dating site.

Anyways, it was a good conversation and I enjoyed talking to her, but she is still in deep in Replay I think.

I almost get the feeling that she feels a little remorse, but I could be wrong.

Anyways, when I called her, it sounded like she was sleeping. My boys said she always sounds like that.

She blamed my mother for cutting her out of her life. It is so funny how everyone else seems to be at fault except her.

Anyways, that is all that is going on with me. Just thought that I would give everyone an update. I feel like I need to vent right now, but I really don't have the time. Off to work.....

Tad