RT, IDK if I said this or if you read it on my threads, but my W leaving was something that was 100% positive and needed.

If she would have stayed, I know I would be D by now.

Separation does NOT have to mean D. For us it has allowed us the space that we both needed.

Look at it as a gift of time. She is not going straight to D.


M46,W41
D16,D18
M22,T25
BD 11/12
W moved out 01/13
Piecing 10/13
Divorced 01/15
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can."
UrWorthy