RT, IDK if I said this or if you read it on my threads, but my W leaving was something that was 100% positive and needed.
If she would have stayed, I know I would be D by now.
Separation does NOT have to mean D. For us it has allowed us the space that we both needed.
Look at it as a gift of time. She is not going straight to D.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy