Out of curiosity, I asked W if she knew what day it was today. "Uh... the 21st? 22nd? No, may 23rd. "And...?"
She forgot it was (would have been) our 12th anniversary.
It's no big deal, really. She never remembered it in the past. She would come home to flowers, cards, gifts, candles, her favourite meals, handmade presents from the kids. "Oh... Is that today?"
One time, she even said "I forgot about it all day, and when I thought about it as I was getting off the train I just thought, 'Ah, it's such a hassle to pick something out', so I just said forget it.
Not a real romantic at heart, my STBXW, lol.
M41 W42 M 12 T 15 S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2 BD 1/2/2013 Living as roommates Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13