Strategy for therapy:

1. Focus on the positives.
2. If FB comes up, listen and stay calm. It is an opportunity to hear and understand.
3. STFU when she should be talking, even if she is not. Don't bail her out.

Wish me luck.

CB

Me; 42, W; 43
M; 16 yrs
S12, D9

3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure"
5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"