Another update,

Confusing few days since my last post. Come down with flu and bombed out a bit as had to skip gym and other activities.

My birthday was on Tuesday. Monday when I dropped S things off W gave me a bag of presents and 2 cards, one from her and one from S. I thanked and hugged her and she filled up again but managed not to cry. Her card was nice and signed off with love & kisses. Think just a standard sign off for W in cards but it was nice all the same.

Also got a lovely text from her on my Bday wishing me a good day and again signed off with kisses.

I thanked her for the presents, cards and bday wishes.

Wednesday I did some long overdue housekeeping on the computer. Found a couple of letters W had done which were a bit upsetting. One was a letter to a GF she had not seen since school. It was dated not long before her confused feelings in Dec 12 but stated how happy she was and that her 2nd H (me) was definitely the right choice and how glad she was that she had got it right the 2nd time around!!! grief!!!!

2nd letter was to the local authority dated after BD but before she moved out blaming them for the M break up. I have documented the trouble with schooling and transport in my earlier threads on newcomers which was an exhausting conflict with the local authority!!

Not sure if she actually sent any of the letters!

Gonna treat myself to a DVD and early night tonight smile