It does need to be addressed I'm just confused because I thought I couldn't make any demands on who he communicates with unless he commits to wanting to try in R!
True, you can't really enforce boundaries with a separated WAS, and without enforcement, boundaries are pointless. IE, the WAS has no incentive to comply with boundaries if they are done with the LBS anyway.
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H has only committed to wanting to rebuild with dds and is 'not closed' with me.
The WAS pushes the LBS away first and reconnects with the LBS last.