Originally Posted By: reb9597

It does need to be addressed I'm just confused because I thought I couldn't make any demands on who he communicates with unless he commits to wanting to try in R!


True, you can't really enforce boundaries with a separated WAS, and without enforcement, boundaries are pointless. IE, the WAS has no incentive to comply with boundaries if they are done with the LBS anyway.

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H has only committed to wanting to rebuild with dds and is 'not closed' with me.


The WAS pushes the LBS away first and reconnects with the LBS last.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57