I am in the middle of planning a wedding, not to mention other requirements of joining two households, blending a family. I was told 4-6 weeks until the first court date which if I acted then would have been 1-2 weeks before wedding. Not sure if the timing of X taking kids was blind luck or brilliance on her part. The court order she is violating still stands. I can take legal action.
"The answers are within you" (can't remember who). Unfortunately, so is the bullshit.