You WILL remain stuck and get worse unless you tell yourself, very loudly in your head STOP!!!
Michele even talks about picturing a stop sign in your head, some people swear by that technique. For me it worked a lot better to make myself busy. When I was sitting around doing nothing is when my thoughts started eating at me, so I had to get up and do something. Go grocery shopping. Do laundry. Pick weeds. Work out. Work on a motorcycle. Call a friend or relative. Just something to divert my mind to something more productive.
Originally Posted By: lostforever
I need to give WAW a chance to miss me
Yes. But you can't look at it that way. YOU need to detach and GAL. A BYPRODUCT of that is your W may miss you, but that is NOT why you do it. You do it for you.
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and to reply to the good things I have been doing for her.
That probably won't happen. WAS's will lap up all the good things LBSs offer, but rarely even acknowledge the favor because they "don't want to give the wrong impression". Drop those expectations!
