The sooner you can let her go the quicker you'll heal. You've got to replace her with other friends now..... But you've got to work on detaching and GALing!
^^^^Agree, Agree, Agree. ^^^^
The W moving out (if she does... remember actions not words...) is another step in the journey. It doesn't mean D... but it does mean a different dynamic. My W began our physical S last Feb. I followed DB and took care of myself. GAL'ing even when I don't want to. It helps. It really does. Sometimes your still going to be a tornado of emotion and that's ok too. Work through the feelings. Talk to all of us.
Personally I was surprised by how much better and stronger I started to feel without my W's drama around. I don't think separation is always a bad thing for a LBS. If we give them space to work through their sh*t... the bonus is we get space to heal ourselves and work on us!
((((hugs))))) PS. I know none of this makes it feel any better right now.
Me(F):40 WAW:44 T:13yrs M:9yrs BD:2/12 (I saw a text) ILYBINILWY: 5/12 PA admission: 12/12 (began 3/11) S:2/13 Moves in w/AP D begins: 7/13 W moves home to R: 10/13
