I have been reading as many threads from others as i can and i have to tell you it is at least comforting to a point to know that our situations can get better as long as we are willing to do the work and have patience.
I want to tell all of you who have responded so far "thanks" and i will keep posting as my situation goes along.
I hope to hear from you all soon. Hopefully i will be off moderation in the near future and i will support any of you that i can as well.
Me: 41 W: 36 M:9 yrs Together: 12 yrs Kids S7 S4 BD: 01/13 W filed 5/13 D final 8/13