Do what works for you and if it works, then continue, if not then readjust.
Remember though, your main goal needs to be to find RT and make him happy and healthy, saving your M as a result may or may not happen.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
