Yes, I agree, he more than likely thinks that I will be here for him when "Plan A" (the ow) blows up in his face. I have done a few of the mysterious outings, a few weekend trips without letting him know who I was with and I ocassionally hang fancy lingerie on the shower head so that when he gets in the shower in the morning he has to remove it! I love the idea of the flowers showing up without a card. Knowing him, he'd think they were for him. HA! His response to my trips and mysterious ways has him thinking that I'm playing a game with him. He asks me why I can't just tell him where I'm going and with whom. I know it crosses his mind that he might lose me....he's said as much. He's doing with the ow exactly what he doesn't want me to do so let him get angry! I just don't want to push it so far that he has another meltdown like this past weekend.
I think I'll visit the local florist and see what trouble I can cause.
Me:57H:62 M:34T:35 2S,2D (grown nlah) BD:09/2012 visits M ow EA/PA?:10/2012 H moves out 06/2013
"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama
