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Originally Posted By: Kaffe Diem
Physical separation does not have to be a reason to LRT.

Here's where I get confused. I opened my DR book and on pg124 MWD writes:

"It's imperative that you begin doing LRT immediately if:"
1 - Your spouse has said to you in no uncertain terms they want a D
2 - You and your spouse are physically separated
3 - You and your spouse live together but have very little to do with each other, etc...
4 - Your spouse has filed for divorce

So when I began DB'ing. We were already S and I implemented LRT> It worked. But not enough? She is still going back to physical separation. I know each couple is different but MWD's instruction here seems so clear with words like "imperative" and "immediately."

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Me(F):40 WAW:44
T:13yrs M:9yrs
BD:2/12 (I saw a text)
ILYBINILWY: 5/12
PA admission: 12/12 (began 3/11)
S:2/13
Moves in w/AP D begins: 7/13
W moves home to R: 10/13