I think I know my choices. They are just not easy. I mean I have a W who refuses to counsel with me. Refuses to talk about anything. When we do talk she blames me and escalates. I was physical separated for 6 months in which she asked for divorce every month same time of month. I moved back she went silent after 2 months for 6 months. She snaps out of it all of sudden in January. (always suspected EA) here. Now she is back to cold and silent once again. I've been talking to several folks today on and offline about my sitch. I almost feel I need to give her ultimatum and stick to it.
