Thanks for the advice PM. Hope the day finds you well.

Its hard once you finally understand why your spouse wants to leave you. You then realize all the things you have done wrong to cause the D but you just feel so helpless because things have deteriorated to the point of no return.

I now realize the different times my wife has tried to talk to me but i would always turn it around and find some fault that i thought she had and point it out.

I wish i would have read DR sooner, but am almost done with it my second time now. So much useful information, but i fear it is too late for me.


Me: 41 W: 36
M:9 yrs
Together: 12 yrs
Kids S7 S4
BD: 01/13
W filed 5/13
D final 8/13