Yes, EE was wonderful, one of the best experiences of my life, and I highly recommend it. The best thing - beyond all the wonderful, real, people that I got to meet there - is a chunk of restored self esteem and the knowledge that I will survive, however things turn out. If my W and I cannot be good (I realized that I was very angry toward her) to each other, since 9 years (!), then continuing to be married does not make sense.
I understand that my W is angry toward me also - would that she would go to EE! - but really, a good deal of this is hers and not mine or even ours. Now to stand firm and push back when needed, with the support of my therapist and friends here and back in the US.
Hugs, SD, I embrace you. Keep me posted on the fishing in Philly.
Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.
