Thank you for the valueable insight. I do agree with you that in order for things to get better she needs to pursue me. I guess that is were patience comes in. I really am starting to believe she has moved on and over me though. And that is why it is tough just to sit back and not do anything. But I do understand that it must be done.
I do miss her badly!!!! Then of course on my way to work today I saw her drive past me. She was coming home from work. We are seperated living in seperate households now so I never see her. Just seeing her drive by triggered alot of emotions. I miss her dearly.
What are some signs that she is "showing" she may want to be withm me. I can tell you right now that I am getting nothing from her but would like to be prepared for the future if the signals are ever sent.
To answer your ?'s
She is not contacting me barely at all. Only on regards to the proceedings if absolutely necessary.
She never contacts me just to talk. She pretty much tells me she does not want any contact unless it has to do with the D proceedings.
She never acts interested in how I am spending my time and I dont feel like she cares at all about my feelings. Never asks.
We are not under the same roof so do you think the LRT is best for me to do? What does "drop the rope" mean?
Me 33 W 32 Married 10/13/12 WAW Started sleeping in spare room 1/13/13 Divorce filed 2/13/13 Seperated 3/1/13 till ????????? Divorced 5/28/13