You HAVE to get out of your poor me I can't do this, I am all a lone, no one loves me the world is against me, blah blah blah mode.
You WILL remain stuck and get worse unless you tell yourself, very loudly in your head STOP!!!
Sound harsh? It is and I can say this to you BECAUSE I am right there with you!!!
I KNOW what you are feeling, I fight it every day!
AND I am here to tell you there IS light at the end of the tunnel.
It isn't easy, it isn't fast, it isn't fun, IT IS WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO!
WAKE yourself up and scream and shout!
Take it little by little, let a shred of light through each day and it will happen, I promise you!
Did I say it is HARD???
You CAN do this.
I am proof that you can, just read all my threads. Threads and threads and threads of whining and I can't do it and poor me and blah blah blah...
I am doing it. It is slow, but I am doing it
AND so will you!
YOU CAN DO THIS!!!
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
