I am fighting (not very well) feelings of "time is running out" and now have the urge to drop DB and read DR instead. Am i being silly?
The one thing you have is time. I remember early on being very panicked that I had no time and needed to know what to do RIGHT NOW!!! I was convinced I was in an emergency that hinged on what I would do in the next few days. But it was months before my W moved out and here we are almost a year later and still not D'd. Just relax and take a deep breath, as we often say around here you're in a marathon, not a sprint