It's not the drinking that's a deal breaker for me... the drinking is the obvious target but it's H choosing drinking, working, computer, anything - over me or our family. It's the rejection that hurts the most. H drinks too much and i wish he lived a more healthy lifestyle but he's never been a rip roaring drunk. His actions of excaping with alcohol make me feel rejected

Hmmm I feel like I just worked through something there. smile now what to do with this new understanding?

M: 40
H: 43
D15, D17
M: 22 years
S: 7/12