labug, I asked d18 and she confirmed she saw the caller id display while H's phone was on table. I don't know if H answered while at table.
It does need to be addressed I'm just confused because I thought I couldn't make any demands on who he communicates with unless he commits to wanting to try in R! H has only committed to wanting to rebuild with dds and is 'not closed' with me.
Should I wait to address it in MC next week? I need help with the logistics of this problem. It's been a challenge for me not to react in anger and call him about it, but any accusations would come out as 'wtf are you doing? Jerking us around again? Girls will never trust you again while you're talking to ow!' That delivery will make him defensive and obviously not show the best me. So I've done nothing.
