It sounds like you're both doing as well as can be not expected right now. <see how that works?
She's moving towards you T. You want to keep the momentum moving in this direction. Continue to be the H that none of us would never leave, but leave the ball in her court. Absolutely no pursuing or pressure from you. She has to make that choice to love.
For this to work you want to eventually (as in semi-soon) see her chasing you. Don't settle for more limbo now. That's my 2 cents worth.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
