I feel the same way. H took OW to Mazatlan. We have time share there and he loves going. That's where his parents vacation twice a year. BUT LIKE H3LL I'M NOT GOING!! I found pictures of the trip. Pictures where WE had posed! Pictures of them kissing and it just put up a HUGE TALL THICK WALL at the thought of vacationing there EVER again.
Yes, I realize I also sound like a child but it's about progress not perfection and I'm not ready to work on this just yet.
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017