Not confused...trying to keep hope alive!!!

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Thank you everyone. The sit down went better than I thought it would go. Turns out H has introduced them to OW several times and this weekend she slept over his appt....when he had the boys and he openly gave her a key to his apartment in front of them. S9went to bed and S14 started processing to me how everything he has been seeing makes sense now. Also just happened to talk to my SIL and found out he screamed at her for inviting me and kids to her house for a birthday party which I never attended. I am going to see what legal advice I can get regarding kids and ow. This is all too much to process all at the same time. Clearly H has gone crazy and s14 thinks he might be doing drugs... Who knows. Gotta lot to accomplish tomorrow as well as keeping my head in the game at work. Til next time.