Originally Posted By: AnotherStander
Do nothing. Stay put. Stand your ground. If she wants to leave then that is totally on her, she needs to make that decision, find a place, set it up, deal with all the inconveniences, etc. etc.


Thank you for posting AnotherStander. I read all of your points and advice with interest. I feel a little less selfish reading how other people think i should not leave. I have been beating myself up over whether it is the right thing to do in regards to the children's welfare. In my heart i definitely don't think that i should leave.

I don't think that W will either. The reasons why i think that this is so, i will elaborate upon in a subsequent post.


Me: 49
W: 47
M: 19 T: 25
Son:19
Dau:13
Son:6
BD: Aug: 2012
Separated - same house: May, 2013
Ultimatum to move out: Dec 2013
W looking to move out: January 2014
Dau says go, I move out: June 2014